Are You Being Lied To?
This is for the men being lied to. The guys that are being told something to keep them around or to keep
them in the dark. The guys that know something just isn’t right and then find out the truth through their friends, family, or some forgotten piece of evidence she has left laying around.
Women get lied to – believe me I know. But this post is for the guys. If you know she is lying to you then there are essentially3 things you can do!
What Should You Do If You Are Being Lied To?
You have 3 options:
Freak Out About Her Lying
This is not going to be your best option. The more you freak out the more she will cover up her lie. Soon you will start to feel as though you are being irrational (even though she lied) and you will lose the battle by apologizing to her. Then you can’t go back and make it right. You literally get screwed over at this point.
Do Nothing About Her Lying
As tempting as it can be to sweep it under the rug sometimes – don’t. If you let it go you are only showing her that she can get away with it with you. Even if it’s something small, like how much money she really paid for that dress, don’t let her feel as though she doesn’t have to tell you the truth.
Relationships are about honest and communication. If you are scared of confronting her because she will break up with you or freak out then you don’t have much of a relationship anywase. And if you don’t confront her then you relationship will only get worse.
Confront Her about Her Lying
Your best bet is to sit down and talk to her like an adult. Let her know you caught her lying and find out why she has done so. Chances are that she was just scared to tell you the truth because of what she thought your reaction would be.
Once you talk it out you will not only feel better about the lie, you will feel better about the relationship as well. Your relationship will literally grow stronger from it.