You Need 3 Basic Qualities To Seduce Women…
Maybe you want to seduce women into thinking you are suave and sexy and have her heading straight to the bedroom with you.
Maybe you want to have women look at you and go “awwwww he’s such a sweet and sexy guy. I want him!”
Either way seducing a woman is really quite easy once you understand what women are really looking for.
It doesn’t take a sexy hero to be able to seduce a woman but it does take a guy with a few skills in his pocket who knows what he is doing.
There are three qualities you need in order to seduce a girl – confidence, ability, and a calm attitude. Those three qualities will work everytime no matter what you look like and where you come from.
On this page we’ll talk about why each one of those aspects are important and how to get them if you don’t have them already.
1. Confidence in Yourself Will Help You Seduce Women
First off you have to know that there is a very fine line between confidence and cockiness. One will get you laid and the other will get you nothing.
Even the approach has to be on the right side of the line to get her attention in the first place.
So remember that being confident does not involve thinking you have it in the bag but rather that you will know what to do with it if you do get it in the bag.
That’s the confidence that will shine through and make her want you even more. It’s seduction at it’s best.
If you don’t have confidence in your sack session abilities then you need to study and learn about whatever you confidence is lacking.
Need foreplay tips? Then research them until you have complete confidence about what you are going to do.
If you don’t know why women like to be pleased orally or why it’s so important then you need to learn that too.
The point is that confidence comes with knowledge and practice. There is absolutely no other way to get it and if you want to seduce women you need to get out there and gain that knowledge and practice it – it’s that essential!
2. You May Not Have One Hundred Percent Ability To Seduce Women Yet – But You Can Pretend You Do!
She doesn’t have to know that this is your first time trying out your new moves on her. For all she knows you are a pro at this.
And if you look and act like a pro then she will believe it 100%.
So act the part once you learn the art of foreplay and pleasing her in bed both orally and in general.
Keep yourself natural and relaxed at all times.
Even if you mess up and do something that she doesn’t like or something that seems to turn her off, pick up where you left off before she got upset and try something different.
A great tip is to listen to her body to see how she reacts to you. This can be used in the process of seducing her and in the bedroom.
A slow rise of her chest is a good thing. In fact, most slow movements signify interest – any sort of slow and sensual move like her closing her eyes, her speech slowing down, her running her hands through her hair, anything that is not at normal speed can signify your moves are working.
A woman will also often blush when you are turning her on so watch for that as well.
In bed it’s the same thing. Her chest will rise, her breathing will become shallow and louder, and her words will be deeper and more drawn out.
Rely on your senses to know if she is enjoying what you are saying, doing, or attempting to do to her and you will fool her into thinking you are a pro and have more ability in bed then most men.
3. Having a Calm Attitude is Essential To Seduce Women
Every notice how all the guys who have no problem seducing girls seem quite calm though the whole process? This is for a good reason.
Women love it!
It’s not only a turn on to see a calm man who doesn’t get frazzled easy but it also gives a sense of his ability to take care of a situation (which is another turn on).
It shows a sense of control over yourself and confidence in yourself that most men don’t have.
Think of the line “How you doing?” when trying to keep your cool. You should have a slow and sexy confidence about you.
Calm and rational guys are just sexy – period. Your chances of seducing a woman right into your bed are way higher if you carry this attitude then if you freak out all the time.
So keep your cool around her no matter what happens. If she tells you to forget it, keep your cool – chances are she might come around.
If you screw up in bed, keep your cool and she will think it was an innocent mistake.