Lacking some fun ideas for some activities that will give you that feeling of excitement and adrenaline that you felt when you first got together?
Do you spend everyday doing the same thing and you are starting to get bored or in a rut?
Here are 3 fun ways to spice up your relationship and start feeling those feelings you felt when you first started your relationship.
1. Role playing
Role playing does not just have to be limited to the bedroom, although that is very fun and exciting too. Any kind of role playing that you do will leave you thinking about it for a long time afterwards and most likely leave you wanting more. You will see your partner as the person who did “that special game” with you that literally no one else is able to do with you.
Besides the bedroom you can make a date to meet at a bar or hotel and role play that you have never met before. Maybe you buy a drink for each other or you end up getting a hotel room at the spur of the moment to get to know each other better. Use your imagination.
Just make sure you stay in the game and don’t start nagging about something the other person is doing that normally bothers you in the relationship. What would ruin the game worse than saying “You know that when you do that it annoys me!” Remember that this is supposed to feel as authentic as possible to get your excitement up and creative juices flowing.
2. Random Date Night
Both of you can write out a whole bunch of dates that you would like to go on little pieces of paper and then throw them into a can. Then whether it be once a week or once every two weeks you can pull out a surprise date and just go with it.
This doesn’t have to be done on different days. It can be done every Friday or Tuesday. It’s really the excitement of mixing up the activities that does it.
3. Adrenaline producing activities.
Trust me, when you do something that gets your heart pumping with your partner there will be more pumping going on afterwards.
Yep, I just said that.
Adrenaline is what we feel when we first meet someone. We’re excited to see them and we are nervous to know if they like us. So imagine recreating the same essential feeling we have in a new relationship and using it to spice up your boring relationship.
Do anything that causes an exciting stress on you. It does not have to be something that puts your life at risk it just has to get your heart going a little. Try watching a scary movie, going bungee jumping, white water rafting, or anything else that gets your adrenaline going.
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