The Problem That Arises When Trying To Make Girls Laugh
Humor is a magical thing.
- If you are funny you can get the girl to love you.
- If you are not funny you can send a girl running.
- And if you are too funny you can become the clown that girls would rather hang out with instead of date.
So you have to find a happy medium in there somewhere.
Have a sense of humor but don’t go overboard with it by trying to make every line and moment hilarious. Keep it natural and real and you will get the girls attention every time.
And always remember the next 5 tips on how to get the girls with humor.
5 Important Tips on How to Get the Girls With Humor
1. Make Sure That You Are Funny!
Just because your mom tells you that you are naturally funny doesn’t mean you are. I mean have you seen how many people on talent shows think they can sing and dance? I’m pretty sure they were lied to by their family or close friends.
Go out and get some honest feedback on your humor. You may hear things like you are too over the top, you are too sarcastic, you are too dry, you are too negative – whatever you hear take the feedback and use it to your advantage! Figure out how to improve your humor so that everyone’s feedback is something more like: I wish I could be like you!
2. Don’t Insult the Girls By Making Fun of Them
You may think that using humor involves making fun of the girl you are talking to. Maybe you do this with your guy friends and you all get a really big laugh out of it. But trust me, you do not want to do this when you are trying to get the girls. You will not find them walking away from you and denying you their number – ever, funny.
Girls do not like to be insulted. They take things more personal than men. They do not sit around and poke fun at each other with their girlfriends – for the most part. Instead they encourage and support each other. So until you get the girl leave her physical and mental attributes and abilities out of the jokes.
3. You Can Make Fun of Yourself Though
If you make fun of yourself then girls will see that you have a humorous look on life. She will know that you don’t take yourself to seriously and that will be super attractive to any girl.
Note: You can make fun of yourself as long as you actually have confidence in yourself. If you don’t have confidence in yourself and you make fun of yourself then you are just going to look needy and pathetic. She will think you are trying to get attention and words of encouragement rather than making her laugh and you will not get the girl in the way you want. So only make fun of yourself in non-serious ways!
4. If One Brand of Humor Is Not Working Then Switch It Up
Girls all have a different sense of humor. Some are quick and witty and can catch your quick and witty jokes, but other girls will have those jokes going right over her head and may get frustrated because she doesn’t understand what you are saying.
Maybe she has a warped sense of humor and finds things funny that most other girls don’t find funny – so play to that.
But mostly, when you are trying to get the girls, keep your humor non-offensive to her and to others in the beginning until you figure out what type of sense of humor she has. She will let you know in the way she talks and cracks jokes herself.
5. Remember That Humor is More Than Just Words
If you are telling a joke but your body is screaming “I’m uncomfortable!” then you are not going to make the girl laugh – you are instead going to make her uncomfortable.
Body language speaks louder than words, so make sure that your body language is used effectively when trying to make a girl laugh.
Watch comedians like Tracy Morgan. He always has the same body language because he knows it works. Head up, eyes focused, body somewhat stiff. He uses his facial expressions to really convey the humor in the words and it works!
Practice in the mirror or on a friend and figure out how to get girls with your hilarious body language as well as your words.
Remember: Humor is not just deliver and wait for reaction – it’s about timing, knowing your audience, and saying the right things that match her humor.
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