Is there a man who doesn’t seem to notice that you have all the parts to make you a woman? Does he not see all that you have to offer a man? Maybe he’s pretending not to notice, or maybe you are just not entering his scope of interest. This doesn’t mean that he finds you unattractive! It just means that he hasn’t seen you that way yet.
As humans we take in things that catch our eyes and make judgments on those things by the way they catch our eyes. You may see a certain turtleneck sweater every day, but it’s not until you become interested in turtle necks that you actually notice the sweater and really look at it.
We sift through everything that we see throughout the day, which is a lot of different stimulus, and we put all those thoughts and visions into different categories. So if you haven’t done something to turn him off, then chances are you are just sitting in his ‘I don’t feel strongly about this one way or the other yet’ category. Your goal is to move yourself into the ‘I find this really interesting’ category.
Following are some things you can do to catch his attention and become interesting and sexy in his eyes.
Give Off Positive Energy – Smile, laugh, and feel good about life. Being a positive person is a huge attraction factor for many men. There are not a lot of woman who give off this kind of energy, so chances are he will notice you in the crowd and become attracted to you and your positive attitude.
Do not be a ‘fake happy person’ and go overboard with the laughter because you can end up looking like a crazy person on drugs. Just try to really feel good about life, and everything you do, and it will shine through your actions.
Be Confident in Yourself – Remember that you have a lot to offer a man, and that many men would find you attractive. Talk yourself up and boost your confidence in you. Confidence is another huge factor when deciding whether you are attracted to someone. This is also another one of those great qualities that will ooze out of every pore and be extremely noticeable in your body language without you having to say a word. He will smell it from a mile away!
Get in His Vision of Interest – This is a way to avoid waiting for the turtleneck scenario, and instead jump into the line of things he is already focused on. If he’s interested in baseball then wear your baseball hat. Well, you get the drift. It doesn’t have to be baseball, but it should be something that you know he is interested in, and it also should be something that you are either interested in or have a lot of knowledge about.
You do not want to wear his favourite hockey player’s jersey if you know nothing about hockey. Yes, you will catch his attention, but when he approaches you to talk about it you will look like a deer caught in headlights. And that may be enough to put you in the ‘I don’t like this’ category. So make sure his interest is something you can discuss and chances are you will start moving forward onto other topics of interest you share.