Finding a Girlfriend Online can Be Easier Than Offline
Having issues finding a girlfriend in the offline world, but you are ready to find a girlfriend?
Are you usually likely to come out looking bad when you approach a woman, and then move away from her and avoid her until you are no longer embarrassed?
Or do you find a bunch of girls, but they are not what you want in a girlfriend?
If that sounds like you then you might want to take the online approach to finding a girlfriend and bypass the initial physical approach, or you may want to refine your search to find the type of girlfriend you are attempting to find.
Online you can avoid the physical approach and talk from the comfort of your computer at first. This will show a girl what kind of guy you really are before you have a chance to screw it up! You can also figure out if you like a girl BEFORE you have to talk to her! That’s incentive for a lot of people to get online and find a girlfriend.
How To Find a Perfect Girl Online
Don’t Become What SHE Wants
When you discover a girl online you can easily chat her up to figure out what she likes and where her interests lie. And best of all, if you find a girl on an online dating site you don’t even have to talk to her, you just have to look at her profile to find out what she likes and who she is.
Remember though, that whether you meet her on an online dating site or on facebook you have to acknowledge the real you. You have to express your real likes, principles, aspirations, and needs in life. Why? That’s the only way to find the perfect girlfriend!
If a girl start to like you because of the lies, or slight mistruths, that you are telling her than she is becoming interested in the guy who you are pretending to be, not the guy you are. The guy that you truly are and she may not get along as well as the fake you and her. And you don’t want to figure this out later on down the road after she has become your girlfriend.
Also, the real you will come out eventually, and if she is not happy with the real you then she will feel betrayed and upset that you lied to her – even if it is just a small exaggeration or mistruth.
The best policy is always honesty.
Don’t Reveal Your Best Photo
I know that a lot of people suggest showing her your most appealing and perfect picture. You know, the one that captured every feature just perfect!. That’s the one that paints you in your best light, and while it is you – it’s only a perfect still moment of you.
A picture and a person can look drastically different.
When she meets you she is not going to see the picture perfect face that you showed her. She’s going to see the laugh lines, the annoyed look, the blank stare – or whatever else you tend to do. If she see’s too much of what she doesn’t like then you may end up disappointing her and yourself because you choose too good of a picture to portray yourself.
Your best bet is to pick a picture that makes you look good, but not perfect. You won’t live up to perfect!
Write as You Would Ordinarily Talk in Person
Before I started writing on a full-time basis, I didn’t realize how different I sounded on paper as opposed to in the flesh. Now, I write almost exactly to how I talk – especially to my friends, family, and acquaintances.
Most girls size you up after observing many different things, like how you move, the things you do, and the way you talk. If you come across as a huge conversationalist because of your writing language, and then she meets you and realizes that your personality is wayyyyy different from the way you write – you may be in for a let down, because she may find herself unhappy.
I’m not talking about speech issues that many people have. I am referring to the words you use and how you use them. If you describe things in great detail in your writing but are likely to describe things without detail in person then there is a difference in tone, and it affects how people view you.
So if a girl appreciates you to be very descriptive with your writing than she will anticipate you to be descriptive with your words. Make sure they match!